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The Argument

The Argument – Part IV “Mya’s Secret”

Mya and Clarke had been inseparable since their freshman year at Georgetown, so moving in together as roommates was a no-brainer. They rented a cozy two-bedroom townhouse near Rock Creek Park, complete with a chill patio that perfectly suited Mya’s occasional indulgence in a blunt—always indica, since sativa wasn’t her vibe. The patio, with a Japanese Maple at its center and six-foot hedges enclosing the space, quickly became Mya’s sanctuary—a place to light up and let the day’s stress melt away. She had a deep appreciation for her weed, okay obsession, whatever, the girl likes weed. In the first month of living together, they hit up the annual “Real HU” football game—a legendary showdown between Hampton University and Howard University. For any Black college student in DC, this game was like a rite of passage. In case you’re wondering, Howard came out on top, 24-13, but the game was just the prelude to a night they wouldn’t forget. After the game, Mya and Clarke rolled up to Celebrity Hall on Georgia Avenue, a Go-Go club known as the “Black Hole.” And let’s be clear—Go-Go isn’t about dancers; it’s the heartbeat of DC funk, a sound that’s been moving souls since the '70s. The vibe at the Black Hole was typical: thumping beats, a crowd so tight you could barely move. With the Howard players in the house, riding the high of their win, the whole scene felt almost surreal, like an out-of-body experience. Gideon, with Preach in tow, was weaving through the club when he spotted Clarke. In that moment, he forgot how to move—how to breathe. There she was, on the dance floor, moving to Rare Essence like she owned the place, commanding the energy around her, with Gideon helplessly at its center. It wasn’t just how she moved; it was the confidence radiating from every sway, every turn of her body. She had the attention of every brother in the club—and more than a few sistas. But Clarke could give two fucks. She was in a world of her own, and Gideon wanted in. Sure, Mya was turning heads too, but Clarke’s vibe was next level. In the soulful, rhythmic heat of the Black Hole, Gideon and Clarke would meet and ignite a spark that would burn for years. And that fire would only blaze hotter when "The Argument" eventually unfolded. But I’m getting ahead of myself. Fast forward a year, and Clarke and Gideon were deep into their relationship. From the beginning, it was effortless—she was always craving him, and he could hardly breathe without her. They found purpose and belonging in each other, and to them, that was everything. Clarke and Mya had a deal: whenever Clarke wanted a special night with Gideon, Mya would give them space and head out. But one night, while Mya was out, she had an experience that would stick with her, something that would ultimately fuel “The Argument” years later. That evening, Gideon showed up at the townhouse with a bottle of wine and some takeout from...

The Argument – Part III “Mya & Brit”

Now, Mya and Brit are a story all to themselves. A lesbian couple navigating the world of everyday life as if they alone exist within it. Neither deeply political nor champions of any particular issue that swirls about the LGBT community, they choose to move through life as one, assimilating the world into one shared experience – as a couple in love. Let’s start with Brit, real name Candice. With soft blue eyes and reddish-brown hair that seems to sport the duality of looking both unkempt yet stylish, Brit knew from an early age that she would always be drawn to women. As a young girl, she would find herself developing deep crushes on friends (girls) or daydreaming of spending her life with someone of the same sex. In fact, if asked, she would tell you that she couldn’t recall a moment in her life when she felt attracted to a man. Loving women, being attracted to them, wasn’t a choice for her, no more than being born female was. Originally from Bracknell, England, she is the byproduct of parents who fell in love during their days of working as diplomats. Her father, an American, worked most of his life as a foreign affairs officer for the U.S. State Department, and her mother, a Briton, spent her early days as a political savant in service of Her Majesty. Their union brought forth Candice, who became known as “Brit”, because of her accent, during her high school years at Sidwell Friends – a school for the children of the ultra-privileged and political elite. Even though Brit grew up in a world where kids whipped Bimmers around affluent neighborhoods and attended parties with security details in tow, she always remained grounded in the simpler things that life conjured up – like the joy of her mom’s cooking, the tranquility of evenings spent reading comic books with her dad, or the warmth of genuine friendship. Enter Mya. Mya, who proudly refers to herself as an Afro-Latina. Her father, Black, and her mother, both Black and Puerto Rican, Mya grew up in the upper middle-class neighborhood of Chevy Chase, Maryland. With both her parents being lawyers, it was no surprise that she would also find herself making a living as a top lawyer for one of the most prestigious law firms in Washington DC – Whittaker & Zinn. Tall, with even brown skin and hair that had the ability to be styled in a curly afro one day or braided in tight cornrows the next. To Mya, her hair was everything, an outward representation of the internal and deeply personal view she has of herself. A view that, at times, could be in direct opposition to her actions. Heads up, this fun fact comes into play during “The Argument,” so you might want to take notes. Just saying. Back to Mya… Unlike Brit, being a lesbian for Mya was a choice. Having been in relationships with both men and women, Mya found her connections with women to be more...

The Argument – Part II “Preach & Tabitha”

It was Preach who started the weekly meet-up for the group, a way to further bind the threads that connected them as friends. Ah, the friends, let’s lay out the characters, shall we? First up, Preach and his partner in crime, also known to the world as Tabitha. At five foot eight, Tabitha’s stature constantly contradicted her personality—loud at times, very opinionated at others, and always ready to engage in debate, irrespective of whether she held a particular view on the subject at hand. Dark-skinned, giving praise to her Jamaican roots, Tabitha, originally from Chicago’s Southside, is a force born of an upbringing fraught with hardship and deep-set trauma. More on that later, because it comes into play. And then there’s Preach, whose given name is Phineas. Due to his penchant for giving sermon-like pep talks to his teammates during his college football days at Howard University, he became known to everyone as 'Preach.' A product of biracial parents, black father, white mother, Preach grew up on the other side of the nation's capital, in Anacostia, Washington, DC. It was there he first met Gideon. Back then, their relationship was defined by moments, moments of playing Pop Warner football together; moments of running (and surviving) the streets of southeast DC. And, the moment of them graduating high school (together) despite the neighborhood’s temptation of a future that was seldom, if ever, realized. Each of these moments crystalized into a friendship-a bond. Needless to say, they were inseparable. Perhaps because they were both the only children of their parents. Or maybe they found in each other the one thing they both needed—brotherhood. In any event, they both eventually graduated high school with full scholarships and moved on to play football at Howard, both as wide receivers. If someone had to define the bond between Phineas, 'Preach,' and Gideon in one word, it would simply be 'fraternitas'. If someone had to define the bond between Phineas, 'Preach,' and Gideon in one word, it would simply be 'fraternitas.' Of course, that someone would have to be Latin or speak it, since its English counterpart is 'brotherhood.' But I’m tripping over details that will surely come out as the story goes on. So, on to the next couple in their little group of merry friends—Mya and Brit. "Check back for Part III of The Argument - "Mya & Brit"… ...

The Argument – Part I “Gideon & Clarke”

Once upon a time, there was an argument between two lovers. It was epic in both its execution and intensity. The lovers prosecuted their respective positions with words fired over emotional borders, malicious and deliberate in their intent. It wasn’t that they didn’t love each other—that was never in question. Anyone who happened to be in their orbit, whether passing through or staying for the long haul (friends), could testify to the love they had for one another. Again, that love was undeniable. However, in this particular instance, the argument overshadowed their love, giving way to baser instincts and emotions. Introducing Gideon and Clarke. Gideon, a Black man in his mid-50s, exudes a youthful and somewhat charismatic aura. And then there's Clarke, in her early 40s, a stylish Latina with a natural penchant for standing out without trying. Though her name, typically used for men, is often commented on, she likes to remind people that her name, “Clarke,” is blessed with an “e” at the end, making her as exceptional as her name. It Was Epic In Both Its Execution And Intensity Of course, there are other characteristics that make up both Gideon and Clarke, but it’s better to let those come out organically in the story. No need to rush things. Ah yes, the story—something we all affectionately refer to as “The Argument.” “The Argument” occurred at a place that sits on the edges of downtown Washington D.C. At a chic, yet understated spot featuring the typical craft cocktails and the like—Bar Virgile. It served as a weekly meet-up spot for Gideon and Clarke, along with their close friends, two other couples that included the chef of Bar Virgile, known to everyone as Preach. "Check back for Part II of The Argument - "Preach & Tabitha"… ...

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