Dear Daughter
Dear Daughter,
You are about to embark on an experience that will in no small way define who you will become as a woman, as well as a citizen of this world. Embrace that with every fiber of your being. But know, this world will challenge you in ways that may cause you to doubt who you are as well as your views. In those moments, hold fast to who you know yourself to be. Reflect on your experiences growing up, both good and bad. Remember my many attempts to challenge your views and opinions. Invoke at will, the memories of me telling you stories of my childhood and how those experiences still guide me to this very day. Always be open to new things. Willingly and with open eyes, devour new ideas, new experiences and all the newness that this world has to offer. It’s okay to be scared, nervous, and/or skeptical of the unknown. However, it is not okay to let those feelings paralyze you into inaction. You are my daughter, and we don’t freak-out, no matter what because “we” know there is always a way out and a way forward.
Always and without exception be kind and respectful. As a citizen of this world you must remember there are those you will meet whose backgrounds will differ greatly from yours. That’s okay. In those differences you will find beauty and the threads that connect us as a people. However, never be afraid to stand your ground and always speak loudly so that your voice can be heard. Live within your words because through your words as well as your actions, this world will come to know your name. So make sure your words are clear and your actions deliberate.
You are my greatest contribution to this world, and to that affect, I submit to God and to the people of this world, all that you are, and all that you will ever be.
Know that I am incredibly proud of you. I’m still having a hard time grasping the fact the my little LuLa is now a freshman in college. I love you above all things under God, for he has blessed me with you and for that I shall forever be humbled and moved beyond measure.
And lastly…
“Refuse to be defined by yesterday, rendered equal to the day at hand, or held captive by the unknown that tomorrow will bring“.
Love,
Your Dad ~
P.S. It this box you will finds a series of letters, each marked with a feeling that you will more than likely to feel at some point while attending college. If you ever feel yourself feeling, “down” or “lonely” or just needing to feel connected, open the box and choose a letter with the appropriate feeling. Each was written by someone you know, someone who loves you and wishes you nothing but success.
You are my daughter, and we don’t freak-out, no matter what becuase “we” know there is always a way out and a way